We have all been tutored, conditioned and lectured to death that we should always give to others whenever we can. And we were told that being selfish is a sin. But believe you us; at times it’s perfectly OK to be selfish. In fact, being a little selfish can actually make one a happier person. But it’s a tricky territory to get in, leaving you totally confused!
Here’s dearJulius.com guide on when and how to be selfish, without you feeling bad at all.
When It Comes To Your Health
Just don’t compromise on it, come what may. If you have an exercise regimen that you follow, stick to it. Period. Everything else can wait. Your friends’ spontaneous plans, office commitments can wait till the time you are done with your workout.
Your Space, Your Time
Give yourself enough time to mull over the issues concerning your life. And this must be right there at the top of your priority list. All other things are secondary.
Of Course Money, It’s A No-Brainer
The best way to ruin a relationship is to lend or borrow money. So being selfish with your money is a win-win proposition. You save your relationship, as well as use extra cash to pamper yourself.
Yes, Friendship Too
A man who has many friends has, in fact, no friends. Some of those claiming to be friends can be worse than enemies. Being a bit selfish can see you through such double-faced people.
Stop Sacrificing
Don’t make it a habit of sacrificing things that make you happy. Because doing so, you would never be able to live life to the fullest.
When It Comes To Your Relationship
Finding a perfect girl is half the battle won. But it can be a mission very hard to accomplish. Inducing a bit of selfishness in picking the right girl is a desirable quality. So don’t rush in and go only for the one with whom you feel to have a great life together.
Some things must be seen in a context. They can’t always be in black and white. So let this guide help you attain happiness.
Arrange by dearJulius.com Team
