’Well, let’s try!’
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We found these magic words when our little son was about a year old. When my husband first said them, they seemed to have opened the eternal universe of experiments for us.
’Dad, let’s try to mix all the colors with our hands!’
Or: ’Mom, I want to help you make a soup.’ A hot soup, a sharp knife...of course, I find it easier to do everything myself, but she says: ’I want to help you! Let’s try it!’ Why not? After some practice, she now really helps me when making a soup. Her responsibilities are to cut the potatoes and grate the carrots. Yes, she does not do it as quickly as I do, and she’s not perfect in this. Yes, I stand next to her and say a hundred times to move her fingers away. The thing is, we tried. And it works.
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The children, including the inner ones, simply rejoice in the moments of ’let’s try it!’ And it seems to be the essence of childhood: to try, to be curious, to take on whatever comes to mind without thinking of the consequences. But this skill is good, even for adults: it helps us to free ourselves from excessive responsibilities, look at each other, and decide on a new and breathtaking adventure. And even if we fail the first time, we can just laugh or shrug it off.
The magic is that we do it together, supporting each other, experimenting. We’re ready for the simple fact that it won’t work at once. We don’t risk, we just try.
’Let’s try it!’ - it’s a story about vulnerability. It sounds like: ’I don’t know what will happen, I don’t know how to do it, I’m not sure, I’m not responsible for the result,’ but this sincerity and desire to step together into the unknown can make amazing things happen! And it’s also a nice phrase that helps us find a way out of the most difficult and complicated relationship. ’I’m confused. Let’s try to talk,’ or ’I am going through hard times now, let’s try other ways.’
Why not?! Let’s try!
